I know what you’re probably thinking: Why would a porn star advise men on how to date? Porn makes men have Unrealistic expectations of what happens in the bedroom, porn causes young men to have erectile dysfunction, blah, blah, blah. We’ve heard it all before and everyone thinks that porn stars harm men. The fact is that we please men because we understand what men want. We also hear from men. They message us directly on Instagram and Message us on OnlyFans about their deepest wishes and concerns. Many people are struggling so far. They are also afraid to speak up because society scowls about men asking for help. As much as our society has progressed, we still associate masculinity with immutable determination.
The fact that men need help, and Porn stars are some of the best people to help men out. We care about them, we listen to their private wishes, and we are women too. We know what women want and need. And we’ve dealt with more than our damned men. If we improve the man, we also improve the situation great number of of women.
For these reasons, I have launched an e-book, HOW TO BE DATABLE AF, to help the men. Here are some of my favorite tips.
TO LISTEN
Fellas, I won’t lump you all in one category because that wouldn’t know about me, but what I will tell you that in my years of experience I have dated a lot of guys, actively engaged in our conversations and to listen what we have to say is so, very much appreciated. I can not even begin to show you how many guys I’ve had a passionate chat with, sharing super intimate details about my life that aren’t always easy to discuss in the first place, but they just can’t remember a single word. what I said then! It’s horrible and makes us feel like we’re not important to you. So the next time you talk to a woman, listen to her. Find out what she is saying and ask follow-up questions. She will pay attention and may ask you some questions.
WOMEN’S HEALTH
We think men love going to the gym, but it puts a lot of stress on many of you. You worry you’re not as good as the steroid monster next to you. But if exercise scares you, you need to reframe your approach. Men get too emotional about exercising and end up turning it into this whole big spooky thing and come up with a bunch of excuses why they can’t do it, but do you do it when you brush your teeth? I hope not. What I’m getting at here is that if you’re not an exerciser yet, you just need to normalize it in your life. Make it something you do, like brushing your teeth. Stick to a simple exercise routine into your day to get sweat and blood flowing, so you’ll release endorphins and feel happy. When you’re happy, the chicks are happy too.
FASHION
Care about what you wear To be hot. And masculine AF. It’s not just high-quality women who really appreciate it when men put a lot of effort into their looks (it shows us that you’re amorous and proud of yourself), but friend You will feel really good about yourself when you present yourself to the world. This is also related to confidence. Everything, really, is connected! If you don’t know what your vibe is, a good place to start is to google your favorite celebrities/public figures and see what they’re wearing. Take screenshots and save them — or scroll Instagram and save the outfits you find so you can refer to them again.
SELF CARE
Everyone’s version of “self-care” is different, but in a nutshell, figure out the rituals to follow to take care of yourself that make you look and feel your best, and commit to presenting yourself. daily and do them. Self-care involves things like eating well, staying up to date with doctor and dentist appointments, meditation, skin care routines, setting boundaries in your life, etc. and appreciates himself … which means he is also capable of loving, respecting and appreciating other human beings.
“A man who takes care of himself shows a potential partner that he loves, respects and appreciates himself… which means he is also capable of loving, respecting and appreciating his children. others.”
REASONABLE POSSIBILITY
Women LOVE when men are vulnerable to them. This obviously depends on the stage of the relationship you are at. If you just get to know someone, that is Not vibe to unload all your problems with that person. They are not your therapist. But it To be Feel free to share your inner parts as you see fit. Things like your dreams, your desires, things that stress you out, etc. Women bond by sharing these things, and men tend to exhaust these. Vulnerability in a relationship shows a woman that you feel safe and accepted enough to do so, and vice versa. All relationships are about creating a sacred vessel of safety and acceptance for the other person to thrive in.
KIND
You are kind to yourself and those around you, treating everyone with respect and dignity. If you tell yourself every day that you are kind, and you feel kind, you will be a kinder person. And when you’re kinder, women will notice! And believe me, we’ve been waiting for a nice guy to come around.
In short, focus on improving yourself first and you’ll get an A, fit and attractive.
